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Old 05-16-2010, 06:42 PM
Lonely Lonely is offline
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I didn't bring it up because I wanted to sleep around, it just occured to me that I would be more upset by him doing something that he thought could jeopardize our marriage, than by the fact he slept with another woman. I don't know if I want to sleep with anyone else or not, it would be nice to feel as though it's my choice though. I mean I know it's my choice, but right now the choice would be between my husband and some other guy, not much of a choice. I think self imposed celibacy is easier to deal with. I am going to be gone for a year or more, this isn't a short trip. As far as the person he would hypothetically sleep with feeling used, I think that if he was honest from the get go, it might not be an issue, but maybe it would, I didn't think of that. I am able to seperate sex and emotion, but I know not everyone can. Thank you for your responses.

I guess what I am asking is for those of you that are involved in a poly relationship, how did you bring it up?

Last edited by Lonely; 05-17-2010 at 05:36 AM.
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