Hi sumsumsum
i have no problem at all with any question, I will try to answer anything to the best of my ability..
I do have a D/s connection with my Secondary, but my Primary has the authority in my life and was the one who initially set any initial limits on my developing relationship depending on what He saw as being best for me.
My Primary partner takes full care of me, in the sense that He and i are one household and We look after each other in the same way that most couples probably do. ~smiles~