Thanks for your thoughts, Danny. And I suppose youíre right about having to actually make a decision. I think I just worry about suddenly realizing, years later, that Iíd made a mistake that could have been avoided by some careful forethought (not that I havenít give everything involved a lot of thought, mind you). And, of course, I donít feel like my relationship with my gf is a mistake. I guess I donít know what Iím trying to say...
My husband and I do talk a lot, and weíve always had amazing communication. I think thatís why this has all worked out as well as it has. Iím also lucky that I have good communication with my gf as well.
Anyway, thank you so much for your comments.