Yes, that's it, loving someone else doesn't diminish one's love for their primary.
And the reply about using people here to help you out in your time of need is a). a great one and b). evidence of what I appreciate so much about this forum.
No matter what, I hope that your pain diminishes. Hurting is so hard, though I do believe it is part of path(s) for reasons, even if we never know what they are.