And please don’t give me the example of a mother loving her multiple children because that kind of love is different than the type of love we are talking about here.
Ha, I just used that in a post to someone else. Here's the thing, I hear
that this analogy doesn't work for you. For some I imagine it does.
Regardless, I want you to know that I hear your pain, and totally agree with EP and Ksandra. I truly hope that your partner can help you through this.