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Old 05-15-2010, 08:44 AM
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i am so sorry to read this failed attempt...its terrible and heart wrenching that you went thru this!!!
i too had a horrible experience with a poly relationship, a failed V to be precise. and am re-evaluating what i want because of it. i have not decided just yet. so i kinda can imagine what u have gone through...
and the one thing i am trying to make sure i do, is that i do not cross poly off the list simply because of one failed relationship. if i do decide poly isnt for me or for future partners , it will be because it is what my heart truly desires and not because of this failed relationship.
I'm sorry that you have had such a horrid experience. I hope that you truly search your hearts and decide for sure what is best for you...
i hope that you do not close the door on poly altogether because of this horrid relationship.
but if you choose monogamy there nothing wrong with that...
maybe, you just need to find the right person for your triad?
or maybe you really truly do just want each other like you said....

and good luck...
"...Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident." ~St Augustine

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