How often do you see your secondary partners?
I guess I was taking the 'time to myself' for granted. I live alone & have no kids to take care of, but I have a lot of things that keep me busy & that is an attraction for those who also have busy lives. It's the first thing I say when I'm contacted or meet someone, "I have a busy life". And at times I have to follow it with "no I can't see you weeknights". Because if I don't I'll be too exhausted & I'll never get anything done. So yes, I guess I could say that I'm primary. I actually like the sound of that.
Last edited by LadyMonterey; 05-14-2010 at 10:28 PM.