Originally Posted by thunkybunny
How about this? No unilateral decision making when there are consequences for another person.
Suppose you drive the family car to work everyday, and are in the habit of returning home by 6pm. One day, you have a crappy time at work and decide to go for a few drinks before taking a taxi home. You stumble through the door to your house at 11pm. Your family is upset because they thought you might have had an accident and have spent the last hours calling hospitals to find you. Furthermore, your family have no access to the car until the next evening. Now, your family is mad at you. Your response: "Wha...hiccup...whashha probrrremmm? zzzzzzzz"
Well, that is just crap no matter how you look at it.
Sorry you had a bad experience thunkbunny. I would like to avoid that in my new relationship.