I get to share in Redpepper's intimate love. That is huge and the only benefit that I see as a direct result of her being poly specifically. The rest would come with her no matter how she loved in my opinion. The diversity, honesty and compassion she has would be no less I believe.
There is a very big factor in this question in my opinion;
If a mono partner cannot truly embrace the people they are sharing thier sole love with, then there is no benefit that will counter the unhealthy pain they will possibly feel.
Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes
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Last edited by MonoVCPHG; 05-14-2010 at 07:26 PM.