Originally Posted by redpepper
if I had told him specific things I do with my husband I would of missed the opportunity to create something unique to us. Now we are all so close and there is an established relationship there for me and mono and him and my husband... I don't have as much need to keep them apart in my mind. If that makes sense.
I think this is a very good point! It would only be natural for anyone to try to "imitate" what they hear you like in that sense. It would definitely take away from discovering about each other. You are as clever as you are gorgeous