Originally Posted by sage
"what is in it for the mono partner?" It sounds like years of pain and hard work. Of course I love the idea of allowing my partner the freedom to fully experience his love for a secondary but if it is going to cause me pain and hard work for years how loving am I being to myself?
Well, he is sitting right beside me saying he gets to be in a relationship with me....
you would have to ask him for more details on that one really.... yes it has been a huge bout of work and we have worked very hard.... but it's been worth it. I have managed to have a very deep and meaningful relationship with him... more than I thought I could ever have with anyone. I guess I did it cause I thought he was worthnthe effort. He set a bar that was higher than anyone else for me.