Originally Posted by Ceoli
I often feel that single poly people are marginalized within the poly community. When such concerns have been raised by us, they are often not heard, dismissed or even worse, coddled ("But you would never be secondary if you joined us....we would treat you completely equally"). If the pronouns you use in the context of the relationship are still "we", "us" and "ours" while mine are still "I", "me", and "mine", I can't find balance that way.
this this this this THIS!
Recently a "unicorn-hunting" couple posted here and it was all "we/us and you". Not "my [husband or wife] and you".
thank you thank you thank you for putting it into those words! that's exactly what i'm talking about!