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Old 05-13-2010, 09:37 PM
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Default The End

I don't know if anyone is going to come back and read this or wonder what happened but just in case I am going to write this.

My triad is over. I simply cannot do this anymore. I finally realized and admitted to myself that I deserve to be happy and I cannot be happy with the way my relationships were.

Going against my own decision I inadvertantly issued an ultimatium to my husband. I told him that I was leaving and that I wanted a divorce. He stopped me from literally walking out the door. He said that nothing and no one else mattered to him like I do.

So now our girlfriend is moving out and we are going to start couples counseling to see if we can save our marriage. I feverently hope so.

This is not the end of our problems it is still just the beginning. We have a long and bumpy road ahead of us.

I have learned many things about myself, my husband and relationships during the last 9 months. I have met some great helpful people who sincerely care and tried to help.

Although m polyamorous relationship did not work and I have absolutely no desire to start another ever again, I have a new found respect and admiration for those who can practice it successfully.
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