Originally Posted by capricorny
When you explicitly don't identify as polyamorous yourself, I can't really understand why you keep on insisting on definitions of polyamory that quite a few polyamourous people, me including, think are plain wrong.
Quite a few but not all
is the key and I do own it as my interpretation. I'm not imposing it on anyone else. Lots of people who are not monogamous refer/define the word monogamous on here too; no harm in that but again they do not impose it on me. I respect thier definition and consider it different but not wrong.
Loving is a necessity for all loving relationships not just poly.
I didn't misinterpret Ariakas at all. Sorry I confused you