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Old 05-13-2010, 12:46 AM
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Originally Posted by Ariakas View Post
ok...I should say...MY poly is romantic. Just like I can't be monogamous with my cousin, I can't relate poly to that either. Some peoples poly can be all encompassing...thats just doesn't feel right to me. I am poly because I was romantically involved and in love and sexual with someone else. I can't relate poly to my non intimate, non sexual, friends who I love.
That where this foundation thing gets "funny"...because even at its root it is different for everyone...
Would you say that you are more "situational poly" rather than "fundementally poly" Because I do see friends as potential future lovers. I see potential future lovers everywhere. But in actuallity, very few of the people I have dated in the last 5 years have become lovers. So- I am not neccesarily situational poly, but poly by nature and just waiting for the right people to show up.
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