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Old 05-13-2010, 12:40 AM
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Originally Posted by ellie View Post
This is my first poly relationship to be honest. And I agree. I hate all this drama and conflict and I hate fighting. I don't get it either. I just don't know how to proceed just leave it alone, or end it because I don't agreee and feel that is highly dishonest. I guess I just have alot of thinking to do.
How long have you been seeing him? I just re-read all of your posts and couldn't find any mention in any of them about how long the two of you have been seeing each other. I think it might help all of us to support you based on knowing this.

I also want to validate you for talking (typing) it out so well and being willing to really think things out!! That's so important !!
The key to life is in being fully engaged and peacefully detached simultaneously and authentically in each moment.
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