Originally Posted by Ariakas
love - check
ability to love multiple - check
trust/honesty - check
communication - check
my poly is not your poly - check
And a sexually and emotionally monogamous person could check all the way here. That was my point. It just depends on which notion of love you apply.
Polyamory is not a belief system, so the eventual (non)significance of attitude can't be inferred by analogy to belief systems.
I would add equality/equivalence/equity/balance/symmetry - whatever we call it - to the list to make it complete.