Originally Posted by YGirl
So she thinks she's the only one?
"Hon, I have to tell you something. Remember how I said I want this to be an open relationship where we can both see other people? Well, I've been seeing someone else the whole time we've been together. I've actually been with this person for over a year. She knows I'm seeing you and is ok with it. I'm hoping we can all get past the fact that I started on the wrong foot with you and move forward from this point onward."
Yup. I see THAT going over REAL well with the "secondary" (since you said in the OP that you are the "primary").
Yes I am the "primary". She know's she's not the only one, but she also doesn't know how significant my relationship is with him. Telling her that it's casual and dating other people vs. the actual significance of the "others", the "others" factor being only me, just doesn't know.
I know it won't go over well at all. He'll end up hurting her in the long run, at least I think he will. Just an all around upsetting situation.