So she thinks she's the only one?
"Hon, I have to tell you something. Remember how I said I want this to be an open relationship where we can both see other people? Well, I've been seeing someone else the whole time we've been together. I've actually been with this person for over a year. She knows I'm seeing you and is ok with it. I'm hoping we can all get past the fact that I started on the wrong foot with you and move forward from this point on."
Yup. I see THAT going over REAL well with the "secondary" (since you said in the OP that you are the "primary"). Someone's going to get hurt...
Last edited by NeonKaos; 05-12-2010 at 08:38 PM.