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Old 05-12-2010, 04:51 PM
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I think that jumping from "I barely know either of you" to "we're TOGETHER!" is opening everyone up to massive mistakes.

Everyone is at their best early on in the relationship - what needs to be done is that the compatibility still has to be there once the "on my best behaviour" is gone.

I am very much in favour of the slow-and-steady approach... but that may have a lot to do with my tendency towards polyfi.
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