Thanks for the response. It sounds like you are both dedicated to figuring out how to work on this together. I respect that and understand.
There are others that will be connected to you entirely if this doesn't work out. Not just in certain areas. It is possible. But you can also connect with him entirely too if you are both chose to do the work. It might also mean that poly is the best option for him and therefore you if you are willing to stay with a man that you don't connect with sexually. Nothing wrong with that at all.
Thanks for sharing