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Old 05-11-2010, 09:49 PM
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Welcome!! I feel your pain!! I agree with YGirl. Step back and take a few breaths. It generally takes 6 to 8 months to get through the infatuation phase of a new relationship. Until you can get through that, you really don't know what you're dealing with. Can you continue to see other people for a while and see him occassionally (like once a week or once every other week)? A 48 hour sleepover within a few weeks of meeting someone might be "too much too soon" and it's enough to make anyone crazy. You might be putting a lot of unnecessary pressure on yourself and him.... and you might be coming across as desperate!!
The key to life is in being fully engaged and peacefully detached simultaneously and authentically in each moment.
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