Originally Posted by Quath
I think part of confidence is also being willing to learn more or improve. Or knowing that you can improve.
I think so too, but I don't want to take away from what they have either. I don't want to learn things simply because she can do something better than me. That seems a little catty to me. I love to learn new things, I enjoy personal growth. I have nothing against learning to do something differently or gain more knowledge on something. But as much as it bothers me that she did do it better, or maybe he just wanted the extra attention, I want to acknowledge that there are things she does differently or better than I do. I guess I feel like improving my skills will make it seem like I feel that I have to compete with her. Hell right now I may feel like I need to compete with her and not even realize it. But I don't want it to be like that.