I see kinsey's scale of sexuality as more of a water balloon as do I the question of poly and mono... They change and move around inside the walls of definition... those walls change too. nothing is as static as a scale to me. It depends on a whole lot of things from who I am with, and what is going on in my life.
One other note, it's great to be all NRE about poly, but it really isn't for everyone. It isn't easy to handle for a lot of people and while they might love the idea of loving free there are some major trials and tribulations... if you are not the type that loves drama at every turn and prefers to concentrate on a career or something else, monogamy might work better. That doesn't mean that you can't identify as poly or even live within it's bounds... just that the water balloon has shifted and you are in a different place at the moment....
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