You too LR
happy mothers day.
I think this may just warrant conversation privately if you are in agreement sometime. I have lots to say from my own experience of the above described definitions but I suspect what I would have to say would prompt you to want to say more than you may feel comfortable on here.
Its all very interesting and I'm hoping you don't think I am prescribing my version of it all on to your life. That isn't my intention. I am simply interested in what it all means to you in comparison to what it all means to me. I want to understand if I am to witness and support you both in your collaring cerrmony.