Hallo Rusty....I can feel your smile from here!
I'm new to these boards as well, haven't made and intro myself as of yet. I did start a thread asking for suggestions on sharing my feelings with my husband. It's still sort of sinking in that this is who I am. Unfortunately I have a bad habit of doubting myself...but when I talk about this with others there is such a sense of calm and rightness to it.
May I ask what events have led you this discovery recently?