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Old 07-17-2009, 04:05 PM
Mark1npt Mark1npt is offline
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Redpepper voila!....., I think you've hit the nail squarely on the head. I am a concrete person. I know what I like when I see it. I do what I need to do in life. And I do it now. I didn't realize what a monkey wrench I'd thrown into our relationship or the effect it would have. The familiarity and the long term friendship of us 3 has made it easier, perhaps too easy and that has made me feel that we could move along at a much faster pace than most. I haven't been able to appreciate the "engagement period" because I didn't really see the need for one. But I guess you are right. Some aspects of this need to move slower and I have to be able to accept that, even though it makes no sense to me, the logical, practical one.
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