Originally Posted by Superjast
While I engage in a D/s poly lifestyle, I try to keep my head mostly out of "The Community"...just for this reason,...So many people trying to fit everyone else, in nice, little, cookie-cutter packages, so they don`t have to feel threatened by anothers differences.
Maca and I certainly don't participate in "The Community" when it comes to D/s. For one-we wouldn't know where to find anyone where we live who is involved. But more importantly-we really aren't interested in sharing our D/s relationship and therefore-we have no need to find others to share it with.
When I say "share" I mean-at all, not just in the sense of doing it "together".
So often I read about how people feel like they can be "out".
For me-I just AM out. I've always just surrounded myself with people who can accept me for who I am, so it hasn't been a big difficulty telling them that we're poly or that we're into D/s etc......
I am not trying to be catty. I just find it VERY intriquing and curious how few people seem to be able to live like this...