Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
Little hi-jack here...sorry
If there are phyisical constraints or perhaps even the presence of asexuality in a relationship I totally agree. Otherwise, I don't recognize any difference between deep friendships that almost all people experience whether they are monogamous or non-monogamous, and what would be described as a poly relationship if it didn't include sex.
Sure, you have well have that notion of friendship. But, mine is somewhat different, and somehow I feel pretty sure about it being right _for me_, though it will take a lot of time to fully explain. It's rooted in different philosophies, I think :-)