Originally Posted by KatTails
Quath - thank you for that reminder. I have an extremely hard time with this way of thinking. I'm always insecure about how my husband, 2rings, feels about me compared to how he feels about Morningglory. He basically tells me the same thing you said - but I have a difficult time believing him. It helps to hear someone else say it. Now I just need to believe it.
Maybe you could make a list of traits in yourself that are good?
People are REALLY good at listing the bad things-we forget that it's just as important to LIST the good things too.
Not just say "thanks"and walk on having never really heard the compliments.
What is it that YOU are good at?
What is your best feature?
What do you like about you Kat?
(Maybe make a whole thread on what is good about you?)