Derby and I haven't talked much about this topic. It will be interesting to see where it goes. She has no experience and admitted there was some concern on her part that I might be disappointed that she didn't have any and might not want any. I am leaving it up to whatever she wants at the time. There is another woman in the community that I have played with and could play with again. I do have other options. Still, I have to admit my mind has gone there
at this point I only imagine her bursting into laughter.
I gotta say, I love this thread. It cuts to the bare bones of my love for Mono. For us the raw and pure connection is rooted in our Ds life. It grows and grows and is very cathartic for both of us. I am learning so much.