I have choices
. I choose to submit althogh some days it's like pulling teeth to get me to do it. Lol
if anyone has a problen with my being a bi poly switch it's their problem, not mine, since I happen to like who & what I am.
as for chemistry--yep--if i'm going to submit to a woman, or anyone else, or have them submit to me the chemistry HAS to be there or it won't happen. My heart won't be in it.
it could be that they're talking about natural submissiveness or dominance but unless they clarify it I assume they aren't.