Just so you know, if either of you women are into the one dick thing, then no problem, you are happy, he is happy, it's all good. But it sounds like you aren't and she probably isn't too. Therefore, there is some work to do and he has to realize that if he gets to have what he wants then he has to be willing to let go of what he thinks is his right and privileged and deal with his feelings on this one.
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