I have decided to have a new approach to our pending triad. When you meet someone you dont just jump to just being together, instead you date and things go from there. Now the way I have been approaching things now has been when they are ready then it will just be.
I'm going to ask them to let me date them as a unit that way she and her can decide together what pace is best.
I don't understand how I thought it would be ok to just go right to "we're together" before we have even dated.