I'm kind of at a loss myself actually for the meeting people thingy.
I'm the odd one out for a lot of things....I don't fare well in the queer community most of the time despite being open and out about myself. The people I've dated don't often like my enormous ties to the straight community and really I have nothing in common with them.
I'm not into "burning" nor am I a pagan, I do like geeks and nerds so comics books and gaming is fine by me...but I listen to psychobilly, old punk and oi and often travel to see bands, I'm a single momma which it seems so many just don't get, a total cheeky smart ass...good maude I could go on. It's kinda frustrating!