Well, you will see by reading on here that it does work and that by being honest, respectful, empathetic, caring, communicative and genuine to your own needs and those involved is a good place to start.
It sounds like you have some talking to do and that communication should of already started.... just start by saying, "have you heard of polyamory? Cause I think I would like to try it with you."
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