Originally Posted by 4erika
I think they already are pretty lucky that I'm cool with how things are going, and shouldn't expect me to put myself in an uncomfortable situation so they can feel better. That's where I start getting a little selfish, but I figure I'm giving a lot already and they can't expect perfection from me.
And I agree. If you ever feel ready to make a step towards spending time with C try going out and doing somethng that maybe doesn't require talking such as a movie or a concert of some sort. That way maybe conversation if it happens, comes gradually from what you are watching. Just a thought. Don't push yourself though. Let it happen naturally.