I like to know that when I ask a question that I'll get an honest answer. I don't need to know all the details of my partners' lives. I need to know who they are intimate with and if there is a possibility of anyone new coming on to the scene. Up until this point I haven't wanted to know any kind of details about what actually goes on or when it happens. I just want to know when the naked fun stage has been reached, just to be kept in the loop.
Things that I know will be a potential stumbling block I try to talk about before hand. One thing that came up yesterday was using our room for sex while both of us are in town. I have no particular attachment to my bed but I need to know that if I'm in town, even if I don't plan on being home, that if I need something at any time I can get into my room.
Everything will be ok in the end. If it's not ok it's not the end.