Well, he's still with me, so he must be OK with it. I don't do those things on purpose just to bother him.
For example, one time there was a fire where I work and the circumstances were somewhat my fault. I didn't tell him about it for a couple of months. If that's "shady" of me, then whatever. It's not as though I set the fire on purpose just to have some dirty little secret that would give me a cheap thrill of keeping from my husband. I waited until I felt less embarrassed. The reason it would have mattered to him is because I was taking an unnecessary risk.
That's one way the passage of time makes a difference. I hope that answers your question. I do not plan to be forthcoming with any other examples.
Last edited by NeonKaos; 05-03-2010 at 04:53 PM.