Originally Posted by travislang
i am new to the poly lifestyle, and i have been looking for g/f and i have found 3 now, we started talking, then they found out i was married by me telling them i was they stopped talking to me. so my question is this......what is the secret to getting g/f if there even is one. how do find and keep themfrom leaveing after i tell them im married.
Tell them before
they become your girlfriends....when you first date be upfront, that way they know what they are investing in. You'll probably get less dates but the ones that happen will be much more promising