I think this level of giving, in terms of being a good host/guest, is why we are able to achieve compersion in our relationships.... Mono posted this today on his facebook and I felt the need to repeat it here.
"Compersion hinges on genuine concern for people and acceptance for what they have. You can fake being nice to someone externally but you can't fake compersion because compersion is something that you feel internally. It is essentially an extension of your love through your partner into their partner. When you do that t...here is only fulfillment and joy, not hurt and emptiness
This essentially reminds me of the good host/guest idea...
anyone else have thoughts?