Hi Mono - I can't speak for MG - but I have been told by both MG and my DH that her husband knows what is going on, but doesn't want to know who, what (details) or where. DH and I both have met him several times - but as a friend and coworker of hers. I'll let MG elaborate if she wants.
And can I just say that you rock?!? I love reading your posts and have learned so much from you! You are always the voice of reason and you give hope to monos! Redpepper is one very lucky woman!