Joined to get some insight as to how others of similar lifestyles think and live. Still pretty fresh to the poly world. Well honestly I guess I'm fresh to admitting to myself that I'm part of this world. I hope no one takes offence to that. It's not said in reference to anyone else's choices, but for me this is much like coming out of the closet. I was told by the love of my life that I was poly long before I could even picture this lifestyle as a lifestyle. Needless to say my response was enough for him to let me go and for me to run away from both the people I'd fallen in love with. Over the years I've never stopped truly being his and he's never gave up having some type of roll in my life but kept enough distance for me to figure things out on my own. Well now years later I can honestly say he was right all along, but how to embrace this fact in my life is probably going to take a few more years lol. So until then I've joined this group as I said earlier get a little more insight with this in mind I hope you understand if I lack in much involvement outside of observing how others feel, interact, and live.