Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
She has a lot of emotional immaturity issues, but at least she's just started going to a therapist.
My husband isn't much better, in that he happily enables that kind of co-dependency. He had once told her, without talking to me first, that he'd support her so she could do whatever she wanted. He still sees nothing wrong with that.
Supporting someone is a fine and honorable thing...enabling them to live in a world without becoming a fully functioning adult is not a gift...it's an un-intentional setup.