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Old 04-29-2010, 07:59 PM
AMoore AMoore is offline
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Red face New to this, so please bear with me...

I am a 30 year old female, married for nearly six years. We had a monogomous relationship for the first five years, but last year I met and subsequently have fallen in love with another woman. My husband has been incredibly understanding and even supportive of the possibility of me being poly. However, he doesn't seem to have a desire to venture outside of our immediate relationship (though he has expressed a slight interest in being with me and my girlfriend). To add to all of this, my girlfried has a boyfriend that she has been mostly monogomous with for the last seven years, and he is supportive of our relationship and has expressed a desire to join us, on occasion. My husband is okay with this, he says, as long as I don't have/develop feelings for the other man. He doesn't have a problem with the feeling I have for my girlfriend, so I'm not sure what the issue is.

I should probably explain that before last year, I had never thought about being with another woman. My first female experience (not my girlfriend) opened my eyes to a wealth of possibilities, but I am still VERY shy and tentative about all of this...
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