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Old 04-29-2010, 03:21 AM
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To me, loving someone means wanting them to be as happy and fulfilled as possible. If that means putting their desires above my insecurities, then I see that as a chance to grow and become a stronger person.

Tonberry, I agree with you that his restriction seems silly. Especially if there are acts which he does not enjoy, and you want to do them, and he won't let you because he doesn't do them? That makes no sense.

It screams insecurity, and placing these restrictions on you seems like a bandaid solution. Bandaids are OK while the wound is still bleeding, but eventually it needs air to breathe and heal.
As I am sure any cat owner will be able to tell you,
someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
from getting into a box yourself.
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