Originally Posted by SeventhCrow
AH...the unicorn hunters, seeking the elusive, hot, bi babe to make all their poly dreams come true!
That naivete is kinda cute, actually. The odds of the each of them finding a good match in another partner aren't large ('cause poly folk don't grow on trees) and they think that finding a woman who will match both of them equally is more likely than that. It usually doesn't take long for them to grow out of the unicorn hunting phase.
Usually, the unicorn hunting is a sign that the couple doesn't have realistic expectations.
This is not the first time Ive seen this moderator post something like this to a new person. And I don't blame those people one bit if they do get offended by those uncalled for comments. Who are you to go about telling someone what is "unrealistic"? (and even if it was unrealistic, why would you go through such effort to openly comment and offend anyone who might be looking for that? Wouldnt it be better to just let them seek what they are looking for, and wish them the best, no matter what?)
You know, it's actually beginning to appear that that maybe you just have personal issues on this subject. Weren't successful in your "unicorn hunting" as you call it, and so now you try to discourage everyone else?
Talk about a surefire way to drive people away from your site!