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Old 04-27-2010, 10:33 PM
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Lightbulb In My Humble Opinion

1) Red Flag - Big Red FLAG

2) She should tell him NOW...not later.. NOW ! Just tell him, there is never a perfect time or a perfect way to tell someone, you just have to do it.

3) You should be very concerned about her dishonesty in this situation. She should have told anyone that she dates (and this goes for you too) what her lifestyle/dating preferences are. What her dynamics are in regards to being poly. All this should be upfront and if the new person who one is getting involved with can't handle it, they should have that opportunity to walk away from any relationship they might have with her or you. To tell someone after they have invested time and emotional involvement is just cruel and against everything that makes a poly person, as far as I'm concerned.

Just My 2cents worth,
Tim
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