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Old 07-12-2009, 06:26 PM
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I believe you are right in your thinking that most are ok with the cheating but not with the emotional attachments those of us that are poly get with our partners. It is my belief that most people will feel that if we get attached to someone that it lessens what we feel for them, I say this because at first I felt the same way but didn't understand why, now I know it was because I was afraid my D would find someone he could love more than me but after some serious discussions and his reassurances I know it was my own insecurities that caused this, I know he loves me now and always has and have since learned that all he does he does for me and for my happiness and have been more able to go into whatever comes our way with an open mind and heart. For whatever it's worth I hope this helps some.
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