Originally Posted by redpepper
you would do this for your partner? really?! I find it absolutely abhorrent to have sex with people I am not into and in fact find that I think I am insulting them. I don't do anything unless I am aroused to do so. I used to and it just built resentment and anger. I ceratainly wouldn't have sex with a woman just to turn a man on. It would be just for me, but then I genuinely love sex with women... I still wouldn't let a guy watch just because he got off on it. I hated that about swinging. I was all into it and the women hated it, but did it for their men.... I think I have just been triggered by this... sorry
You crack me up! Abhorrent
, really? And you sound like my bf...here is what I am saying...KT and I planned it together. Now we may find it titillating to be part of something together to turn him on (like any sexual turn-on clothes, heals, props whatever) but I don't necessarily seek out women as lovers. Sorry this query ruined your day.
What do you think KT?